According to the research, what percentage of children experience communication challenges as they grow up?
Select one answer.
Start with a shared goal, not a diagnosis
When your child receives speech therapy, the teacher may not know what happens in sessions or how to help during class. You do not need to explain the entire clinical picture. Your job is to connect the therapy goals to classroom participation.
A speech-language pathologist (SLP) can work with you and your child to help them succeed, and SLPs work with teachers, counselors, and other school staff to make sure your child's communication needs are met throughout the school day (CHSA, Wooster Hospital).
What to bring to the conversation
Prepare a one-page summary. Teachers are busy, so make it easy to scan.
- Your child's therapy goals in plain language. Example: "Answering wh-questions in complete sentences" or "Saying /r/ clearly in conversation."
- What the SLP is working on right now. Ask your SLP for the current target list.
- How your child responds to support. Do they need extra wait time? A visual cue? A chance to rehearse before speaking aloud?
- What you want the teacher to notice. Specific behaviors are more useful than general labels.
Teachers often serve as the first observers of speech and language challenges in students, and observable classroom difficulties provide vital clues (Pediatric Communication Solutions).
Use specific, observable language
Avoid vague statements like "he has speech issues." Instead, describe what the teacher might see and hear.
- "She may pause before answering because she is organizing her sentence."
- "He may substitute one sound for another when he is excited."
- "She understands directions but may need them repeated once."
This helps the teacher separate a communication difference from a behavior problem. It also gives them a concrete way to respond in the moment.
Ask about the school's process
Every public school has a process for identifying and evaluating students who may need educational services. If your child is not yet in the school system, ask how referrals work. If they are already receiving school-based services, ask how the IEP team communicates with outside providers.
Speech therapy is most effective when it is integrated into the student's everyday environment, and therapists should collaborate with teachers so students receive support in the classroom as well (NJCommonGround).
Build a simple feedback loop
You do not need daily updates. A short, predictable check-in works better.
- Agree on one communication method: email, a shared notebook, or a weekly note.
- Ask for one specific observation per week: "Did she volunteer an answer?" "Did he use a full sentence?"
- Share what is working at home so the teacher can reinforce it.
This keeps the focus on progress rather than problems.
What not to do
- Do not ask the teacher to diagnose or treat. Teachers can flag concerns and document observations, but diagnostic decisions require multiple data points and a formal assessment by a trained professional.
- Do not assume the teacher knows therapy terminology. Translate goals into classroom language.
- Do not wait for a formal meeting if a quick email will do.
A quick checklist for your next conversation
- Write down your child's top two therapy goals in plain language.
- List one or two classroom situations where the goal matters.
- Prepare one sentence about how your child responds to support.
- Ask the teacher what they already notice.
- Agree on one way to stay in touch.
- Thank the teacher for partnering with you.
How the Featured Expert Can Help
Domino Therapy offers speech therapy services for families, schools, and therapists, with both in-person and virtual support based in Philadelphia, PA. The practice focuses on enhancing communication skills and professional growth. If you need help translating therapy goals into classroom language or coordinating with your child's school, you can learn more at Domino Therapy.

